Quote Originally Posted by choptop View Post
Been living w/a good woman for 18 years. Problem is she has never listened to me as far as things that are important to me. As I get older, who am I kidding, I'm old, I have less use for them but being old and possibly lonely, sex dolls, at least now, don't carry on much of a conversation, doesn't seem like fun. A couple of years ago I started doing more of what I want, retired in Jan 2016, and because she is 12 years younger than me, she still has to work, now that I have a lot of free time, it has become a problem, not for me of course. Hopeful that she will start to listen, those things she never listened to are still important to me and we can come to an agreement of some type because I already have a list of things I want to do this year, Cortez being one of them and...
This October I'll be retired 10 years and my wife is still working and it aggravates them to no end that we're not, whether they admit it or not, so I compromise - I walk her down to the car. Who cares about sex, no big deal it's the other 23 hours and 54 minutes that are important, well minus 6 hours for sleep. Tomorrow we're headed for St. Lucia (her vacation) so I can bank that for Cortez or N.C (my vacation), it's a dance. In the end the question you have to ask yourself every morning is "What are you going to do between today and death."