Center stand opinions?

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I hate to admit this but I still can't get my bike on the center stand. Is it because when the bike is new the spring is tough? or yes I might just be a wimp. I have to drive it onto a 2x4 then do it. I grab the passenger rail and the handlebar and pull up, tried pulling back and no dice. I watched all the videos I could find and it's gotta be more science than strength?

Mine is easier if I pull straight up on the grab rail. And ware hard soul shoes.
Make sure the seat bolts are good and snug on the left side.