Another northeastern Ohio rider here. I too have heated gear but have only used it twice in 40k miles. I find I can usually get away with proper layering and wind resistant clothing. My ski gear doubles as motorcycle wear often this time of year.

I don’t ride as much as some but probably more than most. I average 10k per year with about 1/3 to half of that being traveling out of town. The dragon, Daytona, sturgis, up the coast of Maine, Laconia etc. A destination is just that, and all the (s)miles between are an adventure.

I think the suggestion about finding someone you like to be around who also has a passion for two wheels is a good one. My wife, father, brothers, most of my friends and even my children have bikes and ride. I have never felt more proud to follow my kids and wife through the woods on two wheels, and some of our fondest times involve riding and camping together.

Good luck and I hope you can find the joy again.