You are very astute. They are conflicting. But I am willing to help were needed. I am quiet and introverted by nature. But as I've grown older I've decided not to let my nature stand in the way of doing things. So just because because being around people drains me doesn't mean I can't suck it up and contribute when needed. Besides afterwards I can just ride it off.
I used to hate public speaking but today I can stand up and give a speech with the best of em.
My wife says I am the only person she knows who could be in solitary confinement for months and come out refreshed.
So yup full of conflicts.