My lights came with 3 prongs on the end of the wire not a plug and play connector. I understand that you do not use the y adapter that came with the signals, I use the 7301 kit that I ordered. My question is according to the pics once the 7301 y adapter is installed I am left with 2 small female connectors that the 3 prongs will not plug into to. My lights end in 3 wires, not an oem style connector. Where do I plug in the 3 wires at the end of the lights?